Can We Be Friends After Our Break Up As Girlfriend And Boyfriend

Do we have an understanding of what a friend is, after a breakup
of a relationship. The all important phrase of , it's not you, it's me.
We still can be friends after all. We wonder in our minds, after a
break up, is it worth having a friend like this, that broke up, our relationship.

At first we are upset, because, you never expected , that our girlfriend, was
going to end our relationship, especially if things were going on fine. What fine
to us, may not be fine to her.  On the other hand, put it back on her. You say it's
not you, it's me. The shoe is on the other foot now. We are not doing tit for tat thingy.

Other reasons for responses from either partner, is I am seeing someone else, and
we are very happy together. Let's use that wrench, and twist it a little more, by
saying, we are seeing someone else. How tacky is that?. Well both individuals approach
a break up differently.

You also could of been thinking, it was bound to happen anyways, because we were not
seeing eye to eye on anything. We weren't getting along anyways. To become friends,
we have to be at peace in our hearts, where it wouldn't impact us with emotional feelings
from within. If a break up was mutual, then there is a better chance of becoming friends,

as there will not be any emotional ties to one another. The important question in all of this,
is how much your heart can stand, as we don't want to get into a situation, that seeing each
other, would cause more problems.