Sunday, December 29, 2013

Why It Is So Emotional When We Lose Our Father

A Moment of time we think about Love and why we were made from love, from 2 caring
parents. Life is a period of every lasting Love. We Remember How we came to be and
cherish the times when we had the emotions of being at peace, when we were living under
the guiedance of our father. True Emotions Are essential in our rise as either a young man,

or a young woman. We think back at moments in our life, and realize that value only is in
existence, if we realize what has left us is a fortune and admiration, of  two people that allowed
us to have good memories.  It Is More Of A Loss In My Eyes, When We Lose A Father from
the two parents we have. To reflect the importance of having a father in our lives, we have to

think of why it so important to hold onto memories of who he is. We relate to this person, because
he is  the backbone of our family. When I moved away, and out of the setting of being a son at home,
it signifyed  the changing of events, that in turn  will be missed. The closeness we had, was not going
to be the same, as if I was living at home. We are at an age that allows us to grow from being at home

to being on our own. Many people get married and have a family to raise on there own, and we think
back on how we would handle things, if we were our father. We appreciated the times, when we were
with our fathers, because of the guideance and understanding that was instilled in us, to reflect the
understanding that we would use when we would have our own family. As time passes in our lives that

we take the torch from our father, to  have the responsibility of being a father on our own, we look
back on all the knowledge we absorbed, to incorperate the know how, to be a  good father to our
children, as our father was with us. There is a moment in time when we realize, that as  time passes,
our father gets older, and time would soon pass, that we will have to accept that our father was not

going to be around forever.  When this happened to me 3 years ago, my life was shattered. I loss my
father and it hurt, because I lost a friend that I could was able to confide with.  I am at peace now after a period
of time that passed to accept the loss of my father, because I looked back at the times I had with him,
and how happy I was being with him, when he was alive. I remembered what was told to me by my

father,  that will always be in my heart to remember how important he was to me then, and how
important he is to me now, as the memories I will never lose or even forget, because he was my father

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